Min Albat...
6/23/19
I moved in with my host family
yesterday (6/22). My host father is a 55-year-old carpenter, with 6 children,
but only one lives with them full time; a daughter, who is a student. I met
only my host-dad. He had the largest smile on his face when we met and gave me
a big hug. That has to be the most striking piece of Ethiopian culture; while I
get a lot of looks, and a lot of people stare, everyone is so welcoming. Even
people that know nothing about me other than the way I look come up to me and
say “Welcome” and “Salam-no.” While many of them wear Arsenal football jerseys,
their kindness is none the less well received…even when I am representing
Manchester United! The first time I met the rest of my host family was about an
hour after the first awkward meeting of me and my father. There is a clear
language barrier between myself and my family but they are, at every step,
patient, kind, and willing to help me learn.
My group (G21) found out what
language we all had to learn, and thus where our placement is. Some got the
seemingly far away land of Tigray, which is dry and somewhat reminiscent of
Utah or the Mojave, where they speak Tigrayan and where it is very hot. Some got the
Southern Regions nation, which largely holds Amharic as its predominant language, but has something like
50 (don’t quote me on that number) different languages within one of the
smallest regions in the country. Some languages in the Southern region have a
radius as small as a single village. Others got Amhara, where they speak Amharic
and it can get as cold as New England in the late fall. Finally, the region I
am placed in, Oromia where people speak predominantly Afran Oromo, where it
gets to be up to the mid-80s in the summer, and 50’s in the winter. Oromia also
grows and exports most of Ethiopia’s coffee. In the states, I never drank
coffee, ever. But in Ethiopia, I have grown to love coffee, or Buna as it is
called in Amharic. We drink a lot of coffee; most families even have a coffee
ceremony just before bed which leaves me wired every time and up late writing
blog posts such as nights like this.
One phrase I learned in Amharic was
“min albat” which translates to “maybe” in English. I learned it from my host
brother Hymanot, who is a 22 year old University student at a school in Oromia and
speaks outstanding English; he knows 4 languages. He, like the rest of our
family, is protestant. Religion is serious business here in Ethiopia, which is
taking some getting used to, but its not that hard of an adjustment as I was also raised in a
protestant household. Anyway, Hymanot and I are very similar in a lot of ways.
He has a love of history, music, and aiding others just as I do. Most
importantly though, he is a Manchester United fan. He also has a hope to
continue his studies in America, a goal that I hope I can help him achieve. He is a very intelligent person who would shine bright at any
university or college in the states. We were discussing the United States and
Ethiopia and the differences, as well as the similarities, that the two
countries share. He was taken back at the idea that people in America are
struggling; he sees America for the great country I think we, we being us
Americans, want it to be. He see’s my home country as a land of opportunity,
and “provision” as he says. But if there is anything most people have in common, it is the struggle and uncertainty of what is to come. “Min albat” is the perfect
phrase to describe my path in Ethiopia, as well as the path of most in this
country. Uncertainty comes and goes with every day. Many ask questions like “Will
I have Wifi” “Will I have electricity?” “Will I have food?” or “Will I have
water?” Questions like these are answered in the states, or at least in greater proportion than here
in Ethiopia, in the affirmative. However, the answer for most in Ethiopia remains “min
albat.”
So glad you have your placement!
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ReplyDeleteHi Marc, I am enjoying your posts. Please keep sharing. You are a brave soul and will forever be changed. Think of the experiences that you'll bring back home to your students here. Karen (your mom's friend)
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